Friday, December 31, 2010

The Next King Of Pop ??........

                I've recently noticed how everyone has been trying to take Michael's spot as the " New " King of Pop. They have been saying Jay-z , Usher, Justin Timberlake and others are soon going to take Michael's place. Although these artists are talented I don't believe they have done enough to deserve to take Michael's spot. I honestly believe that no one ever will be able to. It really makes me wonder why everyone is so quick to replace Michael but nobody ever tries to replace Elvis Presley as the King of Rock'n Roll or James Brown as the Godfather of soul. Why is everyone trying so hard to knock Michael down?

            Michael didn't choose to call himself the King Of Pop; he earned it. I know that because there are so many celebrities calling themselves Icons or Kings of there genre, but that title doesn't stick. It doesn't stick because they didn't actually earn it the way Michael has. Once Elizabeth Taylor called Michael the King of Pop at an awards show, it stayed with him forever, because no one could deny all of his hard work. No one could deny the way he knocked down doors for so many other black artists and how he has the greatest selling album of all time.No one could deny how his music is immortal and changed so many people's lives.
           
            And of course we cant forget the huge amount of awards that he has received throughout his career. People seem to be able to become celebrities almost over night and before you know it they are said to be the next " King of Pop ". Michael's career lasted over 40 years and throughout that time, we all know he had to deal with a lot of media drama and rumors. Being the King of Pop, is more than just recording a few great songs, I think it also involves being able to conquer everything else that comes with the industry as well. Like people constantly using you for money, not being able to leave the house and people constantly spreading lies to try to bring you down and take away your innocent identity.

         I really think that Michael was the only one that could have endured all that he went through because of his wonderful faith in God and all of the values that were taught to him at a very young age. He is naturally just a very giving, magical and loving person. All of his songs have a positive message that we will have with us to listen to forever.There is no " next King of Pop " there is only one King of Pop and his name is Michael Jackson. For all of the Non-MJ fans and the fans, I hope you can study the picture above, I really like it because it captures a lot of what Michael has done throughout his life and his accomplishments. All of you can also watch the video below to see where Michael was first officially called the King Of Pop!!


Tuesday, December 28, 2010

The Innocent Connection.......


                   Many people have always wondered why Michael Jackson enjoyed being around children so much. He would always say that he saw the face of God in children, he loves their level of innocence and that they inspire him. I mean When you think about it, there aren't really many adults with the same level of innocence that children have; so I think that made it harder for Michael to connect with adults the way he could with children. I wonder if maybe he was so drawn to their innocence because it was so much like his own. For example, I'm a pretty cheerful, friendly person and I enjoy being around people that are the same. When I do meet people who are cheerful and friendly, I become drawn to them and I want to be around them because they are not intimidating and they make me feel comfortable and happy. Children had the same energy and innocence that Michael had. I don't even know if he was aware of it, but I really think that is a huge reason why he was able to feel so comfortable and happy around them. Children didn't want anything from him but to be his friend and Michael didn't want anything from them but to be their friend.
               With children you don't have to worry about impressing them, saying all the right things or worry about the troubles in your life; you can just be yourself. Michael was one of the rare few that had that same level of innocence. There are a lot of adults that dont value children's existence the way that Michael did. I think that was a big reason why Michael was so misunderstood. I think if more people took the time to connect with their own innocence and surround themselves with innocent children, there would probably be less corruption and distrust in the world. If nothing else they would probably be more creative. I notice that people are most creative when they are children due to the fact that they are not afraid to push boundaries and dream the impossible. As we get older we get more practical and held down by what society says we should be. I think that is why Michael is the best at what he did; he was able to keep the imagination and dreams he had as a child and turn them into a reality.He really was a magical person because he was able to keep what so many other people lose. He kept his innocence.
For all of the non-MJ fans, I hope that this helps you to understand a little better why he cared so much for children and wanted to be around them. For all of the Fans thank you for understanding Michael's inner spirit.

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Behind The Tabloids........


               I was watching a Barbara Walters interview on Michael Jackson and she asked him this question that really caught my attention she said " Is it the presses job to always be kind? " Michael answered- " Their should be some boundaries and they should consider that I have a heart." I totally agree with him !! It's strange how the tabloids and paparazzi are talked about almost as if the stories write themselves and their is no one controlling it. In reality there is a person sitting behind a desk writing these stories. There is a person behind that camera taking as many pictures as they can. I think the problem is that the public gives the media so much power, that they don't even realize it. They purchase the tabloids and It seems like everything the media writes becomes the gospel for so many of them. There are also a lot of tabloids disguising themselves as reliable magazine and news paper resources.That is why it is so hard to convince people of the truth when it actually comes out. If the people writing these articles wanted to be fair and kind in every article; they have the power to do that!
              If the paparazzi wanted to respect Michael's space and not bother him when he is trying to walk down the street; they can do that. I believe that the media is negative most of the time simply because it wants to be. They have way too much control and that has hurt so many people's lives. I believe that is why Michael would say in some interviews that we should have a tabloid burning. He would also tell us to not spend our money on it, because when your buying it; your not buying the truth. I think that we only fuel the fire when we take the time to watch shows like TMZ or buy tabloid magazines. If we didn't they would go out of business and the truth could be left in more professional hands. For all of the non-Mj fans I hope you realize that a lot of the things you have read in the tabloids about Michael have been lies and that you shouldn't buy into it. For all of the fans, there is a message for you on the pillow in the photo which was written by Michael Jackson when he stayed in a hotel !!


Tuesday, December 21, 2010

What You Dont Know.....


             Have any of you heard celebrity or media interviews about Michael Jackson where they talk about some of the things he went through? They say things like; “ He was just sensitive, we have all had acne and got beatings and have been made fun of when we were younger”. I think that - yeah a lot of people suffered acne, have felt lonely, had been made fun of, had to get beatings and maybe didn’t have much of a childhood, but You didn’t have to suffer from acne and then go on stage in front of thousands of people, You didn’t have to have your looks being picked apart by fans who were used to seeing you look a certain way, You didn’t have to get a beating because you missed a dance move, You didn’t have to miss your childhood because you had to spend hours working in a studio or going on interviews and photo shoots. You didn’t feel lonely because you couldn’t find a friend that liked you for Who you are instead of What you are. So please don’t say we all went through the same thing, because there is only one Michael Jackson and he was the only one that had to endure his own pain.  For all of the non-MJ fans I hope that you can realize that problems that seem everyday and normal to you, were probably devastating and unbearable for Michael. For all of the fans I bet your love and support is what helped Michael overcome a lot of obstacles.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Are You A Real Fan?.......


            I wanted to address in this post, all of the new MJ fans as well as the old ones. While visiting some Michael Jackson fan pages, I noticed a lot of people telling other fans that they aren't "really fans" just because they didn't grow up with Michael all of their life like they did. They would say " What do you know about Michael Jackson? Your just a kid ". On that subject I would like to say that I have seen younger people who know every lyric to MJ's songs and know all the tours, facts and rumors; while older adults forgot most of those things along the way and barely listen or support him as much as his newer fans do. There would also be people the same age as each other saying " Your not a real fan, because you haven't liked him as long as I have "!!  I think that the amount of time you have been aware of Michael, has nothing to do with how strongly you care about him!!  Then there would be the new fans being attacked because they didn't know about Michael while he was alive.
         I think of it this way, lets say you were born the day after Michael  passed away, and when you discover his music, you learn and love everything about him while another person who has grown up with him all of there lives doesn't  even really care about him that much anymore. Does that make the younger person less of a fan? Of course not!! I think as MJ fans we should all be more considerate of peoples feelings, and realize that fans are fans no matter what age or how long you have been one!! I hope that all of the Non-Mj fans can realize this, and hopefully if you become fans one day, you will get the respect you deserve. I hope soon that more and more people learn the truth about MJ and see past all of the media lies, and if they do; they just might become fans as well!! If they do I hope all of the current fans welcome them with open arms. I would definitely like to hear any stories that you all have of people saying you are not "real" fans and why!!


Sunday, December 12, 2010

Michael Didn't Fall, He Was Pushed......

         
                  I could never understand the rumors of  when the media would say Michael was making a come back or that his career had been over for a while. Michael never stopped making music, he was in a level of his own that no one has been able to reach and that nobody will ever reach. The media is the reason for the last years of his life being focused more on rumors and less on his music. They really set it up that way to make it seem like he wasn't focused on his career and was just hiding out in Never land, when that wasn't the case. Michael was always listening to the latest music; and songs that you wouldn't even think he was listening to. Michael's creativity and vision was something that was his own and can't ever be duplicated.

I know this because we are all unique. There will never be anyone else that can do something exactly the way that you can do certain things. That's just the way it is, and that is why I can strongly say there will never be another person with the same talent level as Michael Jackson. Still, the media tried to break him any other way they could, even though they knew they couldn't do it creatively; they definitely tried to push Michael over the edge.The O2 tours wouldn't have had to seem like a comeback anyway, if he didn't have to deal with people trying to hurt him and making rumors about him to try to get paid.

                 He had to waste a lot of his time throughout his career going to court for ridiculous things such as unknown music producers suing him because they thought that  Michael had stole songs from them; which wasn't true and there is a video of the trial below for you to listen to, and the  biggest time waster was the widely know child molestation charges, which weren't true and that was really shocking and devastating to him. The media wants Michael to be the bad guy, they want him to be guilty but the truth always prevails and in the end it did. Michael was just an innocent creative man who just wanted to create great music and make people happy. For all of the Non-MJ fans I just want you to know that real talent never dies and therefore doesn't need to "comeback". For all the  fans I know you were all there every step of the way!!




Sunday, December 5, 2010

No More " Wacko Jacko ".......


      I don't know why the media feels the need to disrespect Michael's name by calling him " Wacko Jacko ". The media started calling him this name before he passed away around 1986 and it started because THEY made the rumors up that Michael wanted to buy the Elephant Mans bones and that he sleeps in a hyperbaric chamber, both of which are not true. I find it crazy that the media  has the nerve to call Michael wacky when they are the ones who chose to spend their lives starting rumors, lies and hurting other people just to make a little money.
                        
                          To me they are the crazy ones, life is precious and a gift and Michael chose to spend his life making people happy with his music and dancing and spreading awareness of how we should heal our world and help the children. Now to me that seems completely normal, but it seems like today we live in a world where majority rules, so if a huge portion of the world cares less about trees and more about cars, less about children and more about drinking, less about our environment and more about the Sunday night game; then everyone else has to do the same or else they are "wacky" or " weird ".

          This seems to be the case with why Michael was treated so poorly while he was trying to do good in the world, people just didn't care. They  thought he was strange for being caring and loving, probably because people assume most superstars would be selfish and have huge egos and only care about themselves. Michael was rare and I guess rare these days translates as " wacky " to the media and others. It wasn't Michael that brought the name " Wacko Jacko" onto himself, it was the media.

                         They made up so many rumors and lies that people started to believe them. In case their is any confusion his name is " Michael " not " Wacko" and " Jackson " not " Jacko ". I hope that the media can catch on to that one day and show him more respect. To all of the Non-MJ fans I hope that you can realize that it's pretty much the media that is wacky , not Michael Lol. For all of the fans thank you for always showing Michael the respect he deserved.


Friday, October 8, 2010

The Innocence Of Michael part 4



          In this post I would like to address Tom Sneddon and Martin Bashir. These men have tried to hurt Michael in the worst ways. Tom Sneddon had a Vendetta against Michael for ten years and has tried every thing he could to get evidence and put Michael in jail, but as we all know; you can't find something  that is not there. Michael was innocent and Tom Sneddon apparently couldn't handle losing a case. He went  as far as planting evidence to try to convict Michael of crimes he did not commit. Tom traveled all around the world trying to find one child that had been abused by Michael and he couldn't find one person!! Tom was definitely more of the enemy in the court room but it was Martin Bashir, that reached the masses of people of our generation and older.

               It was Martin that had television access to really sell the lies and portray Michael in the worst way he could, and of course it was all for fame and money. In the Living with Michael interview, he took what could have been a wonderful interview showing how creative, funny, innocent and a great father Michael was and he turned it into and interview doing the exact opposite. He accused Michael of being a bad father, being bizarre, strange and he said that he shouldn't be allowed to be around children that are vulnerable. You all definitely have to check out these videos I have below because they show you just how Martin twisted the whole interview and how Martin actually said during the interview that Michael was a good father and not a threat to children at all.

                      This is the interview that Michael was often criticized by from the public. Martin released this final edited interview with out Michael's consent and then it turned into the controversial interview that it is today. Michael had to do damage control by releasing, the same interview that he filmed with his own camera; so that he could actually show everyone how Martin had really twisted everything around. For all of the Non-MJ fans and MJ fans, I hope that by watching these videos below, you can better understand how these men were really out to hurt and deceive Michael all for their own personal gain. These videos will show you how truth always prevails.








Tuesday, September 21, 2010

The Innocence Of Michael part 3


            In this post I wanted to Address Jordan Chandler . This was the first case against Michael in 1993. As the media tells it; it was Jordan who had said that Michael had molested him, when in fact it was his father Evan Chandler who made up the allegations and Jordan said that Michael had never touched him. We all know by now that Evan Chandler was just out to get money from Michael. Evan Chandler was really into Michael spending time with his son at first until he became really jealous of their friendship. Evan felt left out and like he was a bad father, and then on top of that he was really into making movies and he wanted Michael to give him 20 million dollars to fund his movie, but Michael would not give him the money. Then all of a sudden he claims that Michael had molested his son!! And what does he do, he doesn't call the police like any other father would do, he goes straight to a lawyer and guess how much money he asks for?

       Yes it was 20 million, exactly the amount Michael wouldn't give him to fund his movie. I don't know a parent in their right mind that would worry more about getting a paycheck then seeing justice done by making a person who molested their child go to jail. So there is your first sign that it was all just a well thought out plan by Evan Chandler to get money from Michael.  At some point later on ; Evan Chandler ( who was formerly a dentist ) said that he had done some tooth work on Jordan and that Jordan then admitted to being molested. The only reason he admitted that was because his father Evan had administered a drug that he was not supposed to use called Sodium Amytal. Evan was not supposed to administer this drug to Jordan in a dental office setting, which he did, He was supposed to administer it in a hospital setting only, and with a anesthesiologist present. .
    
     That shows me that he was trying to be sneaky and give this drug to his son, so he could be able to plant these memories of molestation in his child's head. The drug Sodium Amytal is a drug that creates false memories in those that take it. You can simply ask the patient a question and then that will become their memory, such as asking if someone had molested you, if you ask them that question or make that statement, then they will then believe that they were actually molested. Evan had no business using that drug in the first place, because all he was doing was pulling out Jordan's tooth, and there are safer drugs to use for that procedure but instead he decided to use a drug that just happened to be a mind altering drug, just so he could implant these false lies in his child's head.

        The case never made it to court because when Michael had heard and seen all of the frenzy and hate from the public and media, he decided he just wanted it to all go away. Michael knew he was innocent and he also knew this trial could go on for years, and he had albums and tours he wanted to do, so his advisers told him it would be best to settle. They settled for 20 million. Some of the money goes to Jordan in a trust fund and he will be paid by a court appointed trustee. I would like to add that before Evan decided to falsely accuse Michael, he made sure that he had obtained custody of his son, because he knew that whatever money Jordan would win in the case; Evan would be able to have access to it. This case was only about money from the beginning to end , The only victim in this case was Michael. For the Non-MJ fans and MJ fans, I would like you to watch the video's below which include Evan Chandler speaking on the phone about his plans to destroy Michael and set him up and other videos that prove his innocence.








Saturday, September 11, 2010

The Innocence of Michael part 2


         As Michael has said many times before " children don't lie" and " children are the face of innocence'' so I find it interesting that his accuser's were actually 13 which technically makes them teenagers, not children. As we all know; teenagers are definitely capable of lying Lol. I don't think I have ever heard him say ''teenagers don't lie'' and I'm sure it's for a reason. As far as the Arvizo's the boy was 13 and a trouble maker as well, which was stated by other celebrities that came into contact with him before the accusations such as Jay Leno and Chris Tucker. Also his mom has previously tried to scam people out of money, one company in particular was JC Penny. Gavin was caught shoplifting  by JC Penny's security guards while he was out with his family and his mother got into an altercation with the security guards and was arrested. She later lied and said that the security guards had molested and beaten her when they actually didn't do anything at all.

      I believed they settled for over 100 thousand because of the alleged molestation and beating , but she was obviously just trying to get money out of them. There is photo proof that she was never touched by those guards. I found out that her husband would beat her and the kids at times and she used those bruises to make it look as though the security guards had done it. I would like you all to watch the videos below because the first video is of the Arvizo family which was made AFTER the alleged molestation took place. When she took Michael to court she had said that she was "just acting from a script" in that video; which I don't think is true, my thought is what mother would participate in acting and saying great things like that about a man who supposedly molested your child? I don't think any mother would do that. I was able to speak to the writer of the book Michael Jackson Conspiracy by Aphrodite Jones.

     She was in the court room while the whole trial was going on and she told me that "she believes they were not reading a script and that they were very sincere about what they were saying in that video and that Gavin did not come off as a boy that had been abused at all during the trial ". I think either way whether they were reading a script or not, it doesn't make sense that they would defend Michael after the alleged abuse happened. I also find it strange that they used the same lawyer that the Chandlers used , I think they were just hoping to get the same settlement money which I believe was around 20 mil, but luckily Michael decided to fight and of course nothing was found that would connect him to the crime, and he won the trial. For all of the Non-MJ fans and MJ fans I would like you to watch these videos as well as the next parts of this post that I will be writing, so you can better understand these cases and realize these families were just out for money.









Thursday, September 9, 2010

The Innocence Of Michael part 1

      
        I'm not sure if any of you noticed, but I waited a while to write about the child molestation topic, because it is the most controversial and a very delicate topic that I want to try my best to cover correctly. This is the one topic that all the haters always attack the fans with, this is the topic that makes people question, this is the topic that made me feel so compelled to start this blog in the first place; so that the truth could come out. I think out of everything that Michael has endured in his life; these false accusations were the hardest for him to overcome. I want all of you to watch these videos carefully so that you can finally hear the side the media didn't want you to hear. It's the side that shows you Michael's innocence, and shows the accusers lies. Michael loved children in the most pure, innocent and loving way.

        We all have one thing that inspires us more than others, for Michael it was children. He said that when he is around them, they charge him and he is ready to work and write wonderful music. Michael spent a lot of time around children because he spent his whole life raised around adults. These weren't just your average everyday adults these were users, abusers, stealer's, and liars. Most of them wanted nothing but to control Michael and get whatever they could out of him. Yet when he was around a child Michael said all they have wanted from him was to be his friend. I'm not saying all the adults in his life were bad, but there were definitely one too many of the bad ones coming in and out of his life. I would like all of the Fans and Non-MJ fans to watch these videos below, there will be more posted, I am making this a 3 part post....maybe 4 if I need to, Lol  :)














Saturday, September 4, 2010

Michael Has Bad Judgement ??

            I was reading an interview of a woman who worked with Michael named Suzanne de passe and she said " I don't know what happened with Michael in the end. I had not spoken with him in more than three years. I think he used very bad judgement in situations in which he placed himself. In his heart, I believe he was a really good person". Her statement had me thinking that, you don't really truly know anyone but yourself, so there is really no such thing as bad judgement. You have to understand that normally when you first meet someone they have on a friendly facade and they act very kind to you and act as if they have the best intentions in the world when they actually do not. I believe that these are the types of people Michael kept running into. It doesn't necessarily mean he had bad judgement because to him they came off as trustworthy and sweet people because that is how they presented themselves.

         I'm sure that Michael like anyone else who has been deceived by other's in their life , had a reason to believe that the people who wound up hurting them in the end ; had done and said things in the beginning to make them believe that they were good people.I don't think Michael was naive at all as some people also like to say. He just dared to trust people and give them a chance and not live his life in fear in a world filled with distrust. Which is a very brave and strong way to choose to live your life. He continued to forgive and let outsiders into his life even after it seemed hopeless. .

         The bottom line is that Michael was not psychic and there is no way he could have known what people were going to do to him. He just always continued to spread love, joy and wonderful music and tried to make the world a better place. For all of the Non-MJ fans hopefully you can realize that MJ was just trying the best way he could to not live in fear and give people a chance, and unfortunately in return he ended up meeting bad people who pretended to be good like the Arvizo's and Chandlers for ex. For the fan's thank you for supporting and understanding Michael through all of the drama!!


This is a video of Michael's poem from his book Dancing the Dream titled " Trust" read by a fan.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

We've Had Enough......


             There is a lot of hate in this world, for reasons that I could never understand, particularly Racism. I had a conversation with my sister in my car one afternoon and I asked her " How and why did Racism begin in the first place"?? If you were seeing somebody of a different skin color or race for the first time, how does it enter into your mind that you are better than them because you are lighter then them. As we all know racism has been going on for what seems like forever, and even though we have come a long way, there still is racism going on today. I was checking out a Michael Jackson forum page when I stumbled upon a post where someone was talking about how they were searching for a hip-hop page and accidentally was brought into a page dedicated to racism. What really stood out to me is that there was a section on their site that was dedicated to Michael Jackson!!, not Beyonce, not Jay-Z, not Lil Wayne but specifically and only Michael.
I first of all don't understand how this site could even exist, I think the whole idea of it is absolutely ridiculous, and worse it has over 3,000 members!! I can't understand how they could decide to attack the most honest, loving, caring and generous black entertainer out there.

          As stated in the forum post the writer said that on the racist site they were saying that they were glad that Michael was dead and called him a racist slur, which I will not repeat on this blog post. I believe all of this hate stems from jealousy and the fact that they are insecure about themselves, and worst of all I also think they are racist because they were raised that way. Michael himself has said in a magazine interview that " Children are not born prejudice, Prejudice is taught." I really believe racism all together could stop if every one could just take the time to teach love, not hate. Of course it is never that simple, when you  are dealing with a world filled with Bad Childhoods, Judgement, Hate, and War there seems to be less and less room for Love and Change to come through.

         Here is something for you guy's to think about though. We all know that Michael suffers from a skin disease Vitiligo that is a disease that turns your skin white. Michael's skin has been white since the 90's so why are these racist sites still hating on Michael after all these years in 2010?? Because in the end, it has nothing  to do with whether his skin is black or white, it has to do with how these people were raised, Jealousy, Insecurity and Ignorance.  All racism seems to teach is how to hate, regardless of your skin color, so that even if your the same color as them you still aren't good enough for them. Michael has felt that he was wrongly treated at Sony and that they were treating him unfairly and not marketing his albums the way they were supposed to because of his race.

      It seemed that all they cared about was making money and forgot that Michael was the Artist, and that without his hard work they wouldn't have any of his amazing music to release. Michael was a human being just like the rest of us. People forgot that he cuts, bleeds and has feelings just like they do. I think that is what racism is all about, it doesn't realize that we are all the same, we are all one. How boring would this world be if we all looked and acted the same anyway!! For all of the Non-MJ fans this is just a small taste of the pain that Michael had to endure in his life by being discriminated against and hopefully by reading this you can understand him a little better. For all of the fans I would like to hear your input on how you feel about this crazy racist page against Michael.




Thursday, August 12, 2010

Man In the Mirror.....

       
      There are a lot of judgements made on Michael because of his appearance. I hate hearing the jokes made about his nose and the media lies about how he had a prosthetic nose, and all of these other crazy types of surgeries. People don't stop to think about what Michael had to go through in his childhood, and how he was constantly teased by his father about his bad skin condition and nose as a teenager. As if it weren't enough that he had to be teased as a adolescent by his own father, he then had to experience it with the media as an adult. I always think to myself " when will it end " ?? Will he ever be able to be accepted as a person and not constantly be made fun of.?? All of the media reports and t.v specials that talk about Michael's life always seems to blame his father for the reason why he has done plastic surgery on his face, I guess it was a indirect way off taking blame away from them. Through the years all they have done is criticize how he looks, particularly his nose, and then judge him when he gets surgery, as if they were surprised that he decided to get surgery on the one thing they seem to make fun of the most.

       Everybody has insecurities, but not everybody is the most successful Entertainer in the world. He must have felt like he was under intense pressure to be perfect and like he had to fit into everybody's fantasies. The pressure on him must have been intense, because the average person feels huge pressure to look a certain way , espeacially when their in high school;  but there is always going to be someone that doesn't like you for whats on the outside, so you  just have to be you and by doing that your true beauty will show.

        Michael has said himself in interviews that he hasn't had that much surgery, and when you compare pictures you can clearly see that he hasn't had many at all. He has always had high cheek bones, which is another rumor the media spread saying that he had cheek implants, which is totally false. Michael has only had surgery on his nose, and a dimple created in his chin, which was stated in his Autobiography book called Moon Walk. I just don't understand why the world has to focus so much on his outside appearance. He is the most successful entertainer of all time who comes around only once in a lifetime, and the media and the world had the opportunity that the generations to be born after  his death will never have; which was to ask him questions about his music and dancing techniques. They had a chance to really get to the core of Michael and learn more about his unique love and caring for the world, and yet they decide to focus on asking him if he wanted to buy the Elephant Mans bones or if he slept in a hyperbaric chamber.

        The world will never really know just how amazing Michael really was, because they didn't care to find out when they had the chance. Of course we all know the love and humanitarianism and talent he has let us see of him , but I think there was so much left to discover about Michael, that we will never know. I think there was so much more love, heart, and emotions that could have been revealed to us, if the media wasn't so busy trying to break him down and hurt him. I think everyone should look at themselves in the mirror and realize that no one is perfect, we all look different for a reason. There is no definition of beauty because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so before you judge Michael's or anyone else's appearance, you should realize that just because you don't think someone is beautiful and perfect, it doesn't mean that god doesn't. In the end Gods opinion is the only one that matters.For all of the Non-MJ fans, just try to put yourself in his position and try to imagine how it would feel to be constantly judged by your appearance by people that don't even know you or worse ; by people that do know you. For the fans thank you for seeing Michael's true beauty.


Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Loud Silence....


          Today I wanted to address all of the MJ haters. This is not to offend any of the Non-MJ fans that are reading and trying to at least learn the truth, but it is more for the people who know the truth but still decide to hate Michael anyway. I understand that in this world there is always going to be somebody that doesn't like you for whatever reason. I just can't understand when people take it so far as to personally go out of there way to slander MJ on his fan sites, Face book fan pages, and YouTube video pages. It always kills me when I think about when Michael was alive and the fact that he obviously used the computer. I have always hoped that he hasn't read the comments under his YouTube video's or fan pages. It makes me so sad because he has gone through his life feeling so unloved at times and that is the last thing he needed to see.The world to me just sometimes seems like it's one big high school. It has it's labels, It criticizes, It judges, It has hierarchy. I don't even understand why high school is that way.

      Why cant we all just love one another and be more accepting, and realize that everybody is different. That is all Michael did, but since there are always people that don't like you, those groups of people decided to make up lies against Michael and then all of the sudden it becomes the gospel. I just don't understand why the MJ haters would take so much time out of their day to write these things, if he didn't matter to them on some conscious level. I guess it may have to do with jealousy and insecurity or they could have possibly have had bad childhoods themselves. As I said in my other post, Victims of mental and physical abuse react to it in different ways, For MJ it was a positive reaction, but not everyone can handle negative life situations as well as he did. For all of the haters reading this I am not here to bash you and tell you to get a life, or offend you in any way because that has probably been done to you already by so many other people in your life, But what I do want to say is that God loves you and it is not your fault that you were hurt by whoever brought unhappiness in to your life.

        I think it maybe was just a test from God for you to overcome and become stronger. Im sure MJ has grown from his experiences, and I hope that one day you can grow too and realize that you probably have more in common with MJ then you think and that he handled his life extraordinarily well. For all of the Fans thank you for always showing MJ love, and not responding to all the negativity by using negativity, In a way its like Loud Silence, because you don't bring yourself down to that level by negatively responding back; You just say nothing at all. I guess it's like the old saying, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all !!


Sunday, August 8, 2010

You Were There....


           As we all know, Michael has been a driving force in the music industry. He really raised the bar and made people see just how far the creativity with music can really go. Michael has been in the music industry for 40 years and It all started with the Jackson Five. He has worked so hard through the years to get where he was. He has sold over 100 million copies of Thriller, and has 4 of his albums in the greatest selling albums of all time list. He is also in the Guinness book of world records, one of the most notable to me is when they recognized him for being the most successful entertainer of all time!! Michael has done so much for the world through charities and with his music and dance. It aways saddens me when I think about how he didn't get as much love and respect  as he deserved regarding to how the media and the world treated him. I was actually watching Michael performed a song to Sammy Davis Jr. for Sammy's 60th anniversary T.V. special. This performance always makes me so sad because I just wish that Michael could have lived to be a lot older and have someone sing that song to him one day.

       Michael really did change the entertainment industry and he has knocked down so many doors. He inspired people to dream more, be more, and strive for more. He always did it with love and wanted the world to be a better place. I know for me personally he made me believe in Magic and he taught me not to limit myself and that the sky really is the limit !! Michael's music will always be here for us to cherish, and I'm glad that I was a part of a generation that included him in it. I am 20 years old now and because of his influence, I really appreciate the world and all of it's beauty and wonderment. I am really glad that Michael was here to show me and the rest of the world how to be more loving and caring people. For all of the Non-MJ fans, hopefully you can one day appreciate Michael and realize that a lot of the other music artists that you listen to, probably wouldn't be famous today if it weren't for Michael breaking so many barriers. For the fans, I would like to know if Michael has inspired you to be more creative and to strive to be a better person ?

                                  ~ Born to Amuse, To inspire, To Delight,
                                           You are the angels glow, that lights a
                                                 Star, The dearest things
                                                        I know, are what you are  ~


Friday, August 6, 2010

If I Could Change Michael's Past.....


           I always used to wonder to myself what it would be like if I could go back in time and change Michael's past. There are a lot of things that happened in Michael's life that caused him so much pain. If I could have gone back, I would have wrote him a letter that he could keep with him; telling him what to look out for in the future. If I had to choose only a few things It would be the more recent events. So here is a list of some of the thing's I would change: 

1.        I have to of course start off with telling him not to go near the Chandlers and Arvizos. I can only imagine how things would be now if they had never been aloud to enter into his life. Michael was never the same after those false accusations were put upon him and I think it must have really torn him up inside because he has such a pure love for children and they have always been his inspiration for his music, dances and poems. All they wanted was money and they didn't care who they had to hurt to get it.

2.        I would change the incident where he wanted to show his fans Blanket, and held him from his hotel balcony for them to see. The media of course, made a huge deal out of this and even went so far as to say that Michael wasn't a good father, even though Michael was holding blanket tight and strong in his arms. There are other parents all the time that take their kids to the park and throw them up in the air and try to catch them or swing them around in the air in a circle by their arms. Michael has said he would never hurt his children or any child and if he was trying to throw blanket off the balcony, then it obviously would have happened but it didn't because that wasn't his intention, he just wanted to show him to the fans.

3.      I would change the fact that there was never really anybody in his life that he could trust. Everybody always seemed to want something from him, and only wanted to be around him because he was famous. I just wish that he could have had a true friend that could have loved him for him and not because he was Michael Jackson. I hate that he was forced to have such a guard up because their were so many people in his life trying to do terrible things to him. I have even read reports that his employees that lived with him in Never land would steal things from him. A trust worthy person is always hard to find, especially for Michael in his position.

4.     Last but certainly not least, I would change him coming any where near Doctor. Murray, actually I would change who ever approved for him to become a doctor in the first place, because anyone who would give a wrong dosage of a drug, that he wasn't permitted to give out anyway, should not be aloud to work in that field. Michael would have probably still been with us if it weren't for this mistake.

         At the end of the day when I really think about it, I think it's better that everything stays as it is ,because all of the pain that Michael had to endure in his life made him a stronger and wiser person. He used his pain and put it into all of his amazing music and dance moves. It also showed us the incredible amount of love he had in his heart, because even after all of the terrible events in his life occurred, he still loved the world and still cared. Michael said he would never change his past, so I guess I wouldn't want to either. For all of the Non-MJ fans; I'm sure there are some reasons why your not a fan, so what would you change about MJ's past, that would have probably made you one ?? Also For the Fans, What would you write in your letter to Michael,  if you could change Michael's past??


Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Good Night, Good Morning.....


               " Whats wrong with sharing your bed? The most Loving thing you can do is share your bed with someone." These are the words spoken by Michael in the Martin Bashir documentary, that was blown way out of proportion by the media and other people around the world. My insight on the whole thing is that I don't think their is any problem with sharing  a " sleeping space" with anyone else as long as their are no bad intentions and you are just going to sleep. I used the phrase sleeping space instead of bed because I think the world put too much emphasis on the word " bed " as if it was this huge deal. All a bed is made out of is cotton, fabric and springs inside of upholstery. It is no difference then if he would have fell asleep next to a child in a car if they were traveling on the road, on a couch if they were staying up late to watch a movie, or on an airplane flight. Going to sleep is just going to sleep. I don't see what is wrong with it, if there are no bad intentions. I'm sure most of you have also seen Michael Jackson's Private Home Movies T.V. special that he aired. In one scene he attends a Magic show sleepover party. At this party their are children as well as other adults. I think to myself every time I see that scene " Why is it o.k. for the other parents that were present at the event to sleep in the same space with the other children that were not related to them at all, and nobody says anything or thinks twice about it, but when Michael does it ; it is a big deal.

         I think it is very hypocritical of the world and the media to have seen this and not judge those parents and then judge Michael for doing the same thing in his home. My guess is that the viewers didn't judge the other parents because they assumed that all they were going to do that night was just go to sleep after the Magic show and other activities were over. So then why is it so hard to believe that Michael is doing the same thing when he has sleepovers at his home?? I know his situation stands out more because of the allegations made against him , but if people would just take the time to do simple research, such as looking up a few YouTube videos, they would all realize that those families were just trying to get money out of him and that there was no evidence found linking him to those accusations, but I will discuss that more in detail for my future blog post. I think the worlds mind is geared so much toward the negative because of everything that we hear in the news, that it clouds there judgment of realizing that their are still good, pure and loving people in this world.  I can understand why Michael wanted to have sleepovers, he wanted to fill a void in his life. Michael missed out on a lot of things from his childhood and one of those things were sleepovers. Mostly all of us has had the chance to experience that when we were little, so I think in Michael's mind he was just making up for lost times.

       There are also people who put a lot of emphasis on his age and they say that a man in his 40's shouldn't be sharing a bed with a child, but I think that age ain't nothing but a number and the world should be more concerned with his intentions and less about how long he has been living on this earth. Michael has said in many interviews that he would never hurt a child. Now I am not saying that in general you should just fall asleep next to anybody!! But I'm just basing my thoughts off of MJ's heart, purity and child-like personality and I don't think it would be wrong to fall asleep next to him. There are lots of people in this world with bad intentions, but Michael Jackson was not one of them. For the Non-MJ fans, if you have ever fallen asleep next to a child that is not related to you, would you think it would be fair to you for someone to suggest that you were doing more than just sleeping, even though you know you did nothing wrong ?? For all of the fans, well I'm sure you knew nothing went on between those children and MJ, except for them saying, Good Night and Good Morning to each other !! :)