The Lady In My Life.......

    I have collected some interview pieces of Michael speaking about the type of women he likes and how he feels about them. I have seen so many false comments from the tabloids suggesting that Michael wasn't interested in women. I have statements below from Michael himself, setting the record straight. The tabloids will say anything for money, they know that a story suggesting that Michael wasn't into women will sell more, but they never think about the consequences Michael would have to face for all of their lies. I have stories below dating back to when Michael was a child to show you that Michael Jackson has always had ladies in his life!!

1. Interview in  1972


The only difference between me and an ordinary 13 year old boy is that he can go to a place by himself. With me, it’s a little different. I can walk to stores around my hometown by myself but anytime I go somewhere else, I have to have some kind of security. I don’t mind. I kind of like the idea of the girls trying to get to me.

2. Michael Jackson 13 Years Old,Teen Star Magazine, 1972


Q: How do you feel about kissing on a first date?

MJ: I can dig it! I think that if you dig a chick enough to ask her out, you’re crazy if you don’t want to kiss her. And, if she accepted the date, she likes you and probably wants to be kissed. So, I couldn’t think of any reason why you shouldn’t! I think I’d like to wait ’till the end of the date before I kissed her, though! I think most girls are afraid you’re comin’ on too fast if you kiss them right away. But, if I could tell that chick I was with was just waitin’ to be kissed, I wouldn’t mess around wastin’ time! I’d take her in my arms, bend her face back to rest on the back of her seat, and slowly lean toward her, gazin’ into her eyes and talking in a slow, smooth voice. Then, I’d press my lips against hers, gently at first, then harder and harder until we’re both lost in a soul kiss of true love.”

3. Michael Tells: ‘I’m A Girl Watcher!’ Tiger Beat, September 1972 (Michael aged 14)


Michael always says it with a smile but he’s serious when he calls girl watching ‘an art’!

When asked, he’ll explain that it takes a lot of practice to ‘eyeball chicks’ without being noticed. For one thing, Michael knows that it’s very rude to stare at a person openly. That’s why he’s perfected a technique that never gives him away.

Why did he go through all this trouble?

‘Because I really don’t want to offend anyone by watching them. Some people really get uptight if they know someone is looking at them. But I have this weakness – I love looking at girls!’

‘Just watching a girl can give me the best reason to smile. Girls are something very special and you got to treat them that way. That’s why I always say don’t stare right at a chick. She’ll begin to fidget, wondering if her hair’s messed up or if her make-up is smeared. It’s kind of like going to an art gallery to see beautiful paintings. If you look at a painting just the right way, you get the most out of it!’

4. Special Edition of Right On magazine, 50 Facts About Michael, 1984


28. A soft, beautiful scent will make Michael turn his attention to you.

31. Balloons, balloons, and more balloons are what Michael would send you if you were his special girl.

37. He loves singing romantic songs more than any other kind.

38. Michael loves having long telephone conversations with special ladies.

39. Michael thinks Japan is a wonderful country to fall in love because of its beauty and romance.

41. Go on a roller coaster with Michael and you’ll his win his heart. The scarier the better.

5. Michael Age 12, 1970:


MJ: I like dey legs big and I like them with pretty big eyes (laughs) and uh, let me see what else do I like about girls?

Brother: How about their personality, Mike? (laughs)

MJ: Yeah, I like their personality. That’s one thing I like about them.

6. Michael, Black Stars Interview. November 1976


“A young lady’s physical beauty can by no means outshine the inner beauty that radiates from her inner heart and spirit. The kindness of a girl is more important than anything, really, to be honest about it.”

7. Michael Kissing a fan, Triumpth Tour, Jet Magazine, October 15 1981

How Michael Jackson, sexy lead singer of the Jacksons, surprised a female fan who broke through a line of security guards at the Forum in LA to give him a gift while he was on stage singing a love song. Although Michael apparently wondered how she had managed to outmaneuver the security muscle men, he accepted the gift then pulled her into his arms and kissed her tenderly.

There Was So Much More To Come..........

             Michael Jackson had so much more that he wanted to accomplish before his sudden death. He had an amazing work ethic and a unique way of thinking. Michael doesn't put awards that he wins in his house because he doesn't want to subconsiously feel that he has done it all and that he has achieved all that he ever can. Michael liked feeling that there was still so much left that he had to do. He liked to be innovative and he wanted to try to pry into the future, to create the sound of tomorrow. Even with all of his past music, he would spend hours in the studio until the music was just right. Michael would always be listening to the latest music to try stay on top of his craft. His work ethic was incredible. Michael said that if he takes a week off from working; he feels like he is behind because music is constantly changing. Michael felt that when someone is in competition with another person; it brings out higher effort in their work.

           The music industry is pretty much that way. All of the artist are competing against each other in a way, to be the best and be number one. Michael was a winner every time. He achieved success in a way that no one will ever catch up to. He set the bar very high!! Michael  wanted to always strive to do more and achieve more, He really wanted to do more film and be innovative from a directors point of view. He wanted to take film to another level. He has done this many times in the short film area, but he wanted to try making actual feature film movies as well. I always wonder what could have been. I was watching an interview with Michaels sister Latoya, and she said that we havent seen half of all the amazing things Michael could do. She said that he had so many dance moves that have never been seen by the public and that he had so muc more to give. I wish we all could have been able to experience what was left to come.